Hey readers,
Welcome back, so yesterday evening I was talking to Richa and meanwhile I got to know about an IAS officer committed suicide and left a video clip note. I have been through many such cases and want to talk about it. You might have been through many such talks might be this is just another one but trust me when you are facing with any such thoughts it might help alot.
I’m sure everyone in life would have atleast once had this feeling of ending life without any reason. But wait for a second and think twice. No one stops living before there death.
So, why suicide?
It doesn’t happened instantly. People might say coward and weak people commit such actions. It takes alot of time. Our mind then constantly fights with itself, arguing with regards to what shall be done? Why I’m I born? Why is it happening? Silent depression comes and start making its place into the person.
Trust me it needs alot of effort to control depression over our minds.
What after it?
On, earthly basis family, relatives, friends, acquaintance will cry weep grieve and then start getting busy into their own lives. Try to forget with a tag line the person is gone by himself.
By spiritual term, there is a life rule we will surely take birth once gone. Like we change clothes soul changes body.
Remember we will have to start again a new life unless we find the reason to live.
Symptoms for this?
When we see a certain change in our closed ones behavior, a kind of silence, or sudden jovial nature, getting emotional very soon, or talking about the problems, making their presence to be seen. Dissappearing in between the crowd.
For self realisation symptoms are – silence, always mind cripples with thoughts, fights inside us, feeling of loneliness, believing of uselessness of living, worthless and good for none, pity on one’s self.
Remember its just a phase it will pass
How to stop this feeling of ending life?
Whenever you feel struggle, indulge yourself in something what you like to do. Try to write your emotions in any language you can, try to record it and keep it private.
If you see your friend’s behaviour being change try to talk to him/her. Embrace their actions. Don’t leave them even if they misbehave.
Remember just an effort may save a life.
Life is more than what is seen.
-shraddha
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Nice article Mam. I m 100÷ agree with you. Suicide not a correct decision for any conditions.
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@pkckd1989 thank u.. Have a great Sunday
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Belated happy Sunday shraddha ji.
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😊😊
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Suatiaion..
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In my opinion suicide is not an.option to solve any prblm, so live ur life and fight with that prblm, god have gave us life to live , one day we all dead but its not the time.
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Exactly your gallery may I know your name and thanks for stopping by
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You call me “MS” my short name.
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Sure
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Very nice post Shraddha
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Thank u daneel
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Welcome Shraddha
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Happy Independence day and Happy Janmashtami
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All a bit too close to my heart your article today……..
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Thank u uncle
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Important article 👍🏼
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Nisa ❤️
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I can never imagine the problems one is going through to fall on their own sword so I can not comment on such matters but I must say I would not consider that route myself although people do feel that an escape from hell on Earth is a way out. This is a very touching article, very good as is all of your writings! It’s so important to spread a smile wherever you go because it can make a huge difference in someone’s life and you may not even know it. We may be changing lives as we know it as bloggers and may be unaware of it, that’s why this message you wrote is so important. The little things makes a big difference. 🃏❤️!
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Oh this man!! I really consider myself fortune that I found some special ones through blogging one is Richa and other is this person far but now feels like the closest – Roy!!
Hoping to meet u soon and thank u for stopping by through my posts! ❤️❤️
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I don’t think you know how truly know how special you make people feel. 😍. I hope the same thing!
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Nice….
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Thank u Sayar!! Where were u long time no see
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Welcome buddy. Less active on wp for some time. It’s Great to read yr lovely post. ❤❤
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Most welcome
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Great dear friend 🙂
There is no way to run away from our problems, problems are there to overcome them and if we think we can escape from our bad situations – they will follow us even in the beyond… but then much worse
Yes, if we see a friend suffer from severe depression we should be there for him or her and help to overcome his or her problems. To give love and live it practically should be our answer – but more and more people are left behind in their bleeding wounds…
Thank you very much for sharing this subject
All good wishes
Didi
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Most welcome buddy… And thank you for sharing your thoughts
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It’s very easy to condemn but the person needs a voice to listen. Often we forget that. I will share with you the thoughts that I penned a few years back. You’ve written it in the most compassionate manner, Shraddha.
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Sure vishal any time!
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Uff! Finally found it:
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Will read
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Our life simple policy any suatiaion and conditions.. keep calm. Stay happy and keep smiling as like 😀😁😊
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So true.. But sometimes it takes courage to smile even
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We all know but suicide not a right decision..
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Exactly .. Never an option
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Correct..😊
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It was indeed tragic and shocking!
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Yeah it was buddy
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Suicide and true major depressive illness or bipolar depression are very complex things. There aren’t always easy solutions. It’s not always easy to argue oneself out of it, nor be convinced out of it by others. Such illnesses cause the afflicted to lose control of what to most may seem manageable. Also, it is the case that some family members of those who commit suicide never get over the pain of their loss. It can trigger others’ depression.
I usually never post a link in other peoples’ blog comments, but I think that my post https://birdflight.blog/2017/06/11/to-a-young-man-that-i-will-always-love/ might provide some added clarity.
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Thank u for stopping by and adding more clarity!! Have a blessed day
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Good thoughts and thanks for sharing
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Regards c
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Best wishes from the First City to see the light
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Thank u so much!! Will surely go through it.
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a pleasure
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Reblogged this on From Darkness into the Light.
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Thank u
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a pleasure
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Even I went through this situation.well written Shraddha….keep it up and best wishes
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Thank u arpit.. We were frnds my writings connected us to best frnds
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NO TO SUICIDE!
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So true
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Yeah
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God gave us the gift of life, we shouldn’t take that away cause its the greatest gift ever. As long as there is life, there is hope. God is alive
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So true.. Life is precious and lovely indeed
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I totally agree with you
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“If you see your friend’s behaviour being change try to talk to him/her. Embrace their actions. Don’t leave them even if they misbehave.”
👏 But those who are already dead inside, they don’t need suicide, suicide is for the weak section of people who do not fit in this society, so they need to leave to be born when the society is perfect for them!
#just_saying 😌
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☺️✌️
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I do hope it does not come to this for anyone.
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true sir
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